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Have you ever waited for something? I mean really waited? What does it even mean to wait, especially in our have-it-now society?

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In the last few days I have begun wondering what it means to wait upon the Lord. Psalm 27:14 {NLT} says: “Wait patiently for the Lord. Be brave and courageous. Yes, wait patiently for the Lord.”

Psalm 37:7 {NLT} says: “Be still in the presence of the Lord, and wait patiently for him to act.”

I have a hard time being brave and courageous when asked to wait for something I want, or to receive an answer to a burning question. I begin doubting whether what I want/need answered will actually be provided. I question God, His true faithfulness, and can begin to feel overwhelmed and defeated. But once I get past the fear of waiting, I almost always move quickly to action. I begin taking matters into my own hands. I start acting on Sarah’s power and not God’s. In my actions {and even more in my heart} I say, “God can’t, but I can”. I try to move mountains, speed up time, change people’s thoughts and play God. Talk about a tough role to fill!

This weekend God gripped my heart. I asked a question, one whose answer either way will bring me joy and gladness. And He asked me to wait. Patiently. With bravery and courage. He will answer me. He will act. I need only wait.

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I love food. I’ve never been a salad-on-a-date kinda girl. Give me steak. Give me pizza. Give me real food. I stumbled some posts this week with recipes of foods I just have to make. Seriously, it took all my will power not to make them the moment I read them!

Healthy lemon bars – Nothing says fall quite like baking. Can’t wait to give these bars from Lindsay at Passionate Homemaking. {I’m drooling on myself as I type.}

Sushi – I made sushi once in college at some dorm activity. It did not go well. But, Alicia at Alicia’s Homemaking gives such amazingly simple steps for making sushi that I’m going to give it another go. Do I hear sushi party at the Windhams?!

Steak, twice baked potatoes and roasted eggplantEmily at The Adventures of Miss Mommy wrote this really great post about having dates with your mate. She shared tips on setting up a dating coop and was even so kind as to share her date night meal – Steak, twice baked potatoes and roasted eggplant. Talk about a yummy dinner! Especially without kids. 😉

Be sure to visit Mandi at It’s Come 2 This for more Saturday Stumbles.

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Today is Jonathan’s birthday. I have to say, I am truly amazed by his life. Sometimes I think of all the series of events that brought him this far, that have brought us together. It’s quite humbling and quite literally a God thing. Jonathan’s life is a true testimony of God calling out for the lost, long before the lost even know He is there. Jonathan’s life is a living example of true Christian faith. I see his struggles, but I see him turning to God for help. I see his continual quest to be like Christ, in his faith, in showing grace, in loving others and in loving his family. I could not have asked for a more perfect husband for myself.

{And of course, the girls are always delighted by their daddy!}

I love you Jonathan. You’ve been the best thing to ever happen to me.

*P.S. You can count this as your birthday card. 😉

I was approached by Alicia Hicks, owner of Eco Natural Soap. She asked if I would be interested in trying out some of their products. Of course I said yes and was beyond excited! I requested a soap bar and a shampoo bar. And a few days later, I received my package. To my surprise and delight, Alicia had given me a second bar of soap, a shave bar and lip balm {on top of my original request}! Just how awesome is that?!?

The first night I tried the shampoo, Lavender soap and shaving bar. I was pretty intrigued as to how a bar would work for shampoo {would it lather, would it clean, would I even like it??}. Seriously, it worked amazingly. I wet my hair, rubbed it all over and it just lathered right up. As for the shave bar – it made my legs feel silky smooth. Actually, my thought at the time was that they felt like butter {in a soft non-gross sort of way}. Here are a few family comments:

– “Wow, the peppermint soap makes my skin feel tingly and awake.”

– “A bar shampoo? Whoa, this stuff really works.”

– “That smells good, mama {about the lavender soap}.”

Our family has loved our Eco Natural Soap products. I’ve gone through a slew of natural shampoos and not found one I like as much as this one. Beside the niceness of the product, I love being able to know what ingredients are put in each item {they are listed on the back of the wrappers}. I love  supporting a new company and especially one based out of my hometown! And finally, they have great prices making it worth buying all natural over any other brand!

And here’s the best part:

Eco Natural Soap has agreed to sponsor a giveaway on my blog!

The winner will receive two {yes 2!} bars of soap and a balm of their choice!

Here’s how to win:

1. Leave a comment telling me which Eco Natural Soap bars and balm you like.

2. Facebook and/or Tweet it and leave a comment telling me you did.

3. Blog it and link back to this post and to Eco Natural Soap.

4. Refer a friend and have them mention you sent them over.

You have until Tuesday, August 31st at 11:59 PM, CST to enter!

For more Things I Love Thursday, visit Jill at Diaper Diaries. And for more Try New Adventures, visit Alicia at Alicia’s Homemaking.

*Disclaimer: While I was provided with products to try from Eco Natural Soap, all opinions are mine!

Thanks to Jonathan for setting up my mother’s corner, I have an entire sewing area to work on #2  on my 30 before 30 list, sew a dress. I started working on my first apron and many mistakes and thread later, I have a finished product:

{Notice I have flour all over it? Already getting good use out of it!}

I think it’s pretty cute. I got a big kick out of having an apron with an apron pattern. 🙂 Although, don’t look to closely at the seams. Let’s just say, I still haven’t mastered straight lines.

I’ve started on an apron for Julia and I’m hoping to be done later this week. I’m still not confident enough to even buy the fabric for my dress, but I did pick out some patterns from Hobby Lobby last week when they had McCall patterns for 99 cents. Maybe a few more aprons in and I’ll tackle the dress.

Top Ten {Tuesday} One of my biggest mama-ing tactics is to create order for the girls. It doesn’t have to be clean order {like I’d want} it just has to bring calm to chaos. The best way I’ve been able to do this over the last 2 years is by using my kitchen timer. Sounds strange, but it is a miracle worker! When I set the timer, the Windhamettes know that the timer trumps all {even fits – sometimes…}. Here are my top ten ways of implementing the timer:

1. Sharing – When both girls want the same toy, I set the timer and make them take turns. Once the timer dings, they give the toy up until it’s their turn again.

2. Quiet time – We aim for daily quiet time, where for a specific time they girls sit quietly reading/playing until the timer goes off. This might bring me the most calm in the midst of chaos. I love quiet time.

3. Playing – Before bedtime, we set the timer so the girls know how much longer they have to play. There’s no arguing about when it’s time to be done, since the timer declares that the activity is over.

4. Finishing eating – Julia might be the world’s slowest eater. Ever. At almost every meal I set the timer to let her know she needs to finish her food before I clear the table.

5. Cleaning – This is more for me than the girls, but I set the timer and clean until the timer dings. Once that time is done, there is no more cleaning {except dishes} while they are awake. It helps me keep a balance of not cleaning all day.

6. Time out – Come by my house during the 5 o’clock meltdown and you’ll most likely find Julia in time out.

7. Resting – Some days the girls {read Julia} just needs a break and some rest. Perhaps she didn’t nap well {or at all}, so I make her lay down on the couch for 5-10 minutes and rest.

8. Waiting – We’re working on having the girls wait. Patience is a virtue, right? Seeing me set the timer helps them know their waiting isn’t going to last forever {even thought at times Julia is convinced it will}.

9. Learning numbers – I will point out the time and numbers to the girls and then start counting, explaining the numbers to them. Not sure it’s totally set in, but Julia did count to 10 this morning, so maybe it’s helping!

10. Transitioning – Moving from one activity to the next, I want to give the girls a heads up. I set the timer and when it goes off we move on. The switch tends to go much smoother than abruptly changing activities.

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For the last couple of months, I’ve been daydreaming about having a mother’s corner. Just a little nook all to myself for reading, sewing, relaxing. Jonathan and I agreed that the best spot in the house would be the laundry room. It gets the least traffic {especially from the Windhamettes}, is rather large and has a door for more privacy. The only draw back is that it looks like this:

Not exactly what you would call homey and inviting. But Jonathan said with some paint and rearranging, he could make me the best mother’s corner possible. And about 6 hours later, this is what we had:

The laundry area

My sitting area

We painted the floor and started on the walls {mostly focused on my corner so that it would be completed first}. And if you couldn’t tell the amazing difference just of the floor, I’ll show you:

Before

After

Amazing, right?! Just one more reason my husband rocks. Rather than relaxing on his well earned day off, he works all day just to create an area for me to relax. Seriously, he is always this awesome.

As some of you might have read from my twitter update, I made Chicken Curry Soup this week. It was a first attempt {and one of Jonathan’s favorite soups ever} so I was a little weary of how things might turn out. Because of that, I didn’t take step-by-step pictures like I have before. However, I did get the finished product:

Oh man, this stuff was good. It was spicy and filling and perfectly curry. Yum. I had read several different recipes in order to pick and choose as I needed {if we didn’t have an ingredient on hand or if I thought another ingredient sounded better}. Here’s what I did:

Chicken Curry Soup

1 pound of cooked chicken, chopped or shredded

2 quarts of chicken broth {you could do half broth/half water}

1 onion chopped

several small potatoes, cut into quarters

2 carrots, cut {or baby carrots equivalent to large ones}

1/2 cup mushrooms

1 14 oz can of coconut milk

4 tablespoons curry powder

1 tablespoon ginger

salt to taste

Saute the onion and chicken {if chicken isn’t cooked} until chicken is cooked and onion is translucent. Add onion, chicken, carrots, curry powder, ginger and salt to broth/water. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat to a simmer and add potatoes, mushrooms and coconut milk. Cook until potatoes are done {about 20 minutes}.

This was such a basic recipe. There are several more things I could have added and plan to the next go-round. But even without all the bells and whistles of a restaurant curry soup, it still tasted really great {even the next day for lunch!}. Two things I would change: 1. Not forgetting to add salt to my broth {again}; 2. cut down on the broth/water. Jonathan and I both agreed that it was too watery and that it would have been thicker if there was a better broth to milk ratio. Just little tidbits to tuck away for this fall when we start making soups several times a week.

For now: Bon Appetit!

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Emily over at The Adventures of Miss Mommy is doing another fabulous giveaway!

Hailey’s Halos, is an Etsy store that makes adorable headbands for little girls

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There are so many cute headbands to choose from! And the best part is, there will be three winners!

Visit Emily, leave a comment and make sure she knows I sent you!

We’ve had the same Oreck vacuum since we were married. And Jonathan had it for a year before that. And his parents had it for about two years before that. So when it died at the end of July it didn’t come as a total shock. We debated having it fixed, after all it did the job* and we liked that it was fuss free – no attachments, no hoses, just a vacuum. But then we decided to buy our dream vacuum: Dyson – All Floors.

{This picture almost makes me think angels are singing in the background, what with the perfect lighting and super clean carpet}

We found a great deal at Home Depot, paying $100 less than we expected and we bought it. As soon as we got home, we put our Dyson to use. And here’s what we got:

Pretty gross. We had vacuumed two days before and the floors didn’t even look very dirty. But the Dyson pulled up all the dog hair, dirt and yuckness that apparently our other vacuum {and vacuums we have borrowed since ours broke} just couldn’t get. Wow. After that first run through, we did it again and got half as much, then did it a third time and got about a fourth more. Pretty spectacular if you ask me.

Jonathan said Dyson is the Apple of vacuums. They are sleek, state of the art and pricey but worth it. My favorite part is that I can vacuum our wood floors {which is the kitchen and all the bedrooms} so I don’t have to sweep, which just so happens to be one of my least favorite chores.

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